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Vanessa van den Brink's avatar

I can so so much relate to what you both Lindsay and Demi are saying. I have been in such a phase of “forced” slow living a couple of months ago and just as you said, I reached for my phone excessively, engaged in retail therapy on end and generally did all the things that made me feel empty and depleted. all that time I was wonderkind why I was so demotivated and was wondering where my drive has gone. your piece Lindsay gave words to that period and showed me, that I have been asking the wrong questions all along!

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Lindsay Scholz's avatar

That was exactly my experience, as well! All of these distractions – mostly digital, some not – were entirely depleting, and not at all inspiring. I promise that your motivation and drive will come back with time and gentle routine! It's what I'm telling myself, at least ☺️

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demi giannios's avatar

This speaks so deeply to where I’ve found myself lately. For me, the concept of slow living has never been about idleness—it’s about presence. It’s completing even the smallest tasks with intention, focus, and care. It simply softens the pace so we can create and move through life from a place of presence, not performance. And that shift, even when subtle, changes everything.

As for the rest of July—I’m leaning into light routines, creative moments when they come and time outdoors with my family. Trying not to rush through any of it, just letting it unfold slowly—but also honoring the creative person I am, and giving myself space to make, dream, and express along the way 💕

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Lindsay Scholz's avatar

"Softening the pace" is exactly it – pace sets the tone for everything. I'm so glad that these words spoke to you, Demi. You aren't alone!

Outside time with family sounds so lovely right now ☺️ I'm so glad that you're creating space for that in your days.

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Missy H's avatar

Hi Lindsay - any chance you can share your Pinterest username? I’m always looking for more inspo!

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Lindsay Scholz's avatar

Of course! Here is my account: https://www.pinterest.com/lindsayscholzstudio/ :)

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